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A very, very common problem that women have with men. It is common that a man ejaculates quickly ~ especially if sex doesn't occur very often.

For me, I am on top, and regulate what we're doing. Not that passion isn't there...it is, but my boyfriend is physically disabled (which makes me the one in charge). Anyway, women basically have several areas that may bring pleasure. Discovering where your areas of pleasure are may be something that you and your bf should do. Men typically want very much to please their women, but not all of us enjoy the same things. So, it takes some open communication between us to get physical desires met.

It's a little humbling ~ not really something we "enjoy" talking about. But it does help! Tell him where you like to be touched, and how you like to be touched too! Once your physical desires have been met, you'll have a lot more interest and enjoyment in meeting his desires.

Best wishes and luck to you both!