As I grow older I`m really trying to take stock of how my life is going. Very few of my friends are truely amazing, some are just ok and some just suck. Over my life I seem to attract more negative people than quality people. Why? I always wonder this. I tend to be very quiet and reserved and try to help people and be friendly too. But I find that most people want to use and abuse me and not really give back. I tend to not be able to tell people how I really feel till I`ve had enough and I`m ready to cus folks out. How can I deflect people who are not great and attract more quality people?