"I don't even think he thought about doing it...I think he just did it without thinking."

I'm sure he didn't realize what he was doing. It sounds like he's slipping into his own world, another sign of depression. Those of us who are in the grip of it do things that we don't remember doing are aware of what we're doing at the time.

How about next time he attempts to contact a therapist you be there with him and carry through for him. Sounds like he has some anxiety, too. For some, it's a scary thing to even pick up the phone, much less leave a message, etc. I know it sounds strange, but it's true. I used to conduct my life from a telephone, spent at least three hours in the morning taking care of business. I'm not afraid of it now, but I'd just as soon not use the phone if I don't have to. For me, it's the "hassle." (shrug)

Keep us posted, ok?







This above all: To thine own self be true. -- Shakespeare