I hate updating resumes, but it can literally make the difference btwn getting a job or not getting the job you want... it's kind of like the 1st 'image' they see of you when looking through applicants. do you have any help w/ the resume? there's some great resources over the internet as well, in terms of layout and that kind of thing...

I don't know all that has happened, but from what I do know it sounds like you've tried to make things better for you, you're aware of your needs and you have made new goals... all you need to do now is just give it a try to see what's out there. then you can still make that final decision weighing all the pros and cons in the end. working PT should help not 'jumping in too quickly', I would also suggest making sure you continue to have a good support system and listening to your instincts... good luck Jen!