I feel like if we start this as another thread it may just kill the fun we are having! We are sneaking this in behind the subject line of something else. Yet, it kinda does all tie in together. OMG! Why did I confess that to her?

Who in their right mind would confess this to their therapist? The fantasies we are speaking of? Still falls along the same subject line to me. You guys can take it somewhere else if you want to, but as for me, I think we will lose something if we do that.

It also makes it more secretive. Like a club. No know one will know what you are talking about unless they take this little detour behind the original issue (My confessions to my therapist that I have feelings for her).

I think adding this to the end of a very painful thing I went through will make others see that you can get through the painful stuff, you can survive total humiliation, and you can turn it around and have fun with it. You can choose not to allow it to destroy you. You can overcome those thoughts and learn how to deal with them in a healthy way.

Like endulge yourself in a fanatasy world with a bunch of others who have gone through the same thing and survived.