Unfortunately we attract people like us! When we get well and healthy so will our friends.
I find that I need also to change where I hang out. If I want quality friends maybe go where my interest is...like a painting class; a book club; yoga class; swimming.etc...
You will find that the healthier you are the better the friends. The more you think positive about yourself the more you will find people who care about you!
This, believe me is from past experience on my part. I did not like me and I attracted a lot of losers in my day. When I began to like myself and respect myself the more I saw that they were losers and I did not need them anymore in my life!!!!
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Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking others to live as one wishes to live.
Oscar Wilde
Well Behaved Women Seldom Make History - Laurel Thatcher Ulrich
The road to hell is paved with good intentions.
"And psychology has once again proved itself the doofus of the sciences" Sheldon Cooper
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