I am so glad to know I am not alone in this! I have been really concerned for a while about my sexual life. I am attracted to men, I know that much (I kissed a girl once and felt nothing) I love making out and doing a bit more but once it comes to actual sex or just heavy petting I don't like it. I haven't wanted to have sex, I lost my virginity earlier this year (I'm 21) and didn't enjoy it at all and have no desire to do it again any time soon. Also I have never had an orgasm in my life no matter what. I was questioning for a while whether I was actually a lesbian because I couldn't really get in to it with a guy, but I really don't think that's it.

I really do like making out and fooling around though, so it's really just so confusing.