I can usually get an appointment the same week if needed. My appointments are every 2 weeks but if I am struggling I can usually arrange an appointment pretty last minute. I think it's one of the reasons I have stayed with this T for so long- I need the flexibility. Pdoc is different as she is on NHS so I have to schedule weeks in advance.

It must be so difficult to have to wait so long for an appointment with T when you need to see him. I can totally relate to you feeling dissatisfied with the length of time you have to wait and how you feel he is too busy. I thought that Ts generally encouraged appointments to be at the same every week/fortnight/month for consistency for the patient. Maybe not.

Can you ask him for a regular time/day every 3 weeks so you know you are in his diary?