We did get carried away, but when no one commented in a negative way, we felt that no harm was being done. I did try to balance the fantasy with reality. Reality is that many of us are hurting. We do have sexual issues and we don't know how to deal with them.

We hide them, ignore them, try to pray them away, drink them away, etc... we don't just put them out there and deal with them. I don't regret that part of the thread at all. Like I told poetgirl, I know that we helped you, and I have no doubt that many others who were viewing our 'fantasy trip' were seeing that they are not as abnormal as they thought they were.

So many people are in therapy because of shame. Being ashamed of the thoughts and feelings they have. They feel like they are not normal. When you come to a forum and everyone can be open, blunt, honest, and just 'say it like it is' that can be freeing and healing.

I know it is not for everyone and some may have been offended. I also apologize for that. It was meant to lighten up all the negative things that are constantly posted in this forum. Too much of the negative is in here. Where is all the positive things about therapy?

This should have been moved, but we just never thought about it. Now that it is in the other forum, I think it killed the party. That's okay. We are going to party anytime we want, just not in this public forum.

Humor is a great release of pent up emotions. She and I both were dealing with really hard stuff in therapy. We meant no harm at all. This was our way of dealing (or not dealing) with what we know is coming up for us this week in therapy.

Thank you for those who supported us on this trip. I hope that we helped you in some way to see that you are normal. That is, if you think we are normal!