(((((((((( HeartWhispers ))))))))))

I feel the pain in your words, and want you to know that you are so right in wanting to be there for your son...I cannot imagine what it would be like to not be able to be there for your own children...

I just wanted to acknowledge that your feelings are natural and motherly...and that you do what you need to do to help him and your daughter with whatever means you can...

perhaps ask the school counselor to talk to your daughter, explain to him/her what is going on in the family right now, and ask the counselor to talk to her...she might be able to talk to the counselor better because she is not in the middle of the family issues...having a safe place to be herself and let her hair down, so to speak, might do a world of good for her.

Let her know you understand how she feels, and are there for her whenever, whatever the time, it doesn't matter...you are there for her, supporting her...wrap her in a hug if she will let you...give her some undivided time and see how she responds...

You have your hands full...I will be praying for you...

Jewels