Wow, I feel so lucky. My T allows me to send as many emails as I want, in fact he often encourages me and reassures me that it is truly ok with him. It took us quite a while to figure out the most effective way to work together. He says I seem to process things so much better when I write it out. Often I journal but many times I feel the need to send the things I have written away from me in a way. Very rarely do I get a response and I am okay with that. If I feel I need a response I need to ask for one. On occasion he will read an email and feel that something needs to be adressed and he will call me. When he calls we will talk for 1 minute or 45 minutes, it all depends upon how it goes. He never charges me for the calls or email, but I appreciate fully that he is busy and has a life so I never expect him to respond unless it is especially urgent. I certainly appreciate how generous he is with his time and feel grateful that I have a T that is willing and able to work with me in the way I need.