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Originally Posted by Squiggle328
Maybe we can steer this back to the original topic? The facts are that many of us do have unwanted or confusing 'feelings' for our therapist. We freak out and worry that we are not normal. Since this forum is about therapy, this is where it needs to be talked about IMO.
Some people would not venture off to the other forums, even though they are specific to that topic. I think this forum has the greatest following. Maybe next time, I (We) can mention that we are going to talk about (sex) and crazy stuff, and invite others on here to join us in the appropriate forum?
I still think that many who need this help, will not take that route. They will feel too intimidated for some reason. I think people feel safe in the Psychotherapy forum.
Rules are made for a reason and I respect that. I had fun a lot of fun with this in here..... but rules are rules.
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Originally Posted by mixedup_emotions
I don't know, squiggle.....If I had an issue with sexual thoughts/feelings towards my therapist, I wouldn't want to post it on the sexual issues board. To me, the main issue isn't a sexual issue - it's the therapist piece of it. So, I believe strongly that it belongs here.
Not sure what can be done about it other than perhaps a post to the moderators to get some clear definition....
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I know that I felt safer here in the psychotherapy forum....I'm used to posting here, feel this is 'my' special forum and 'my' people, not that I don't venture out and enjoy visiting other places in PC, too and there's great people out there too. I just feel attached to this forum....and true, since this is not merely a sexual issue alone or just sex talk/sex questions but sexual issues tied into therapy itself and with our Ts, I think it does still fit here ..... but if we want to get crazy with the fantasy aspect and go off to theme parks and beaches or talk a lot about toys
, maybe we should take the party to the other forum in that case!
But I definitely want to be respectful of the rules, of what the mods have said, and considerate of what is best in general for the others who frequent this forum....