(((((((((((wolfsong)))))))))))
You can do this, wolf--good for you that you've made the appointment with a lawyer. That's a big step and it requires immense courage and fortitude. I hope the appointment is productive, informative, and stress-relieving. Yeah, that last one doesn't sound right considering the circumstances, but I'd like for you to walk out of that office feeling your load has been lightened somewhat, and the future has a bit more sparkle to it.
Take care while you're on the road. Eat healthy meals and try to truly enjoy them. Allow yourself to stop to admire and take in beautiful spots as you go along. And please, keep us informed.
Wishing you all the best, wolfsong. You're in my thoughts.