Why? why? why?
A few months ago T told me that I had to stop asking "Why" and "But..why??" all the time. She said the reasoning for this is because when you ask a question or someone responds to something and they give an explanation they have given enough reasoning. No there is no need to question it because really, you don't need to know. She said that when I continously ask "why?" I sound like a 2 or 3yr old. So I tried VERY hard not to say why anymore. Today T said something and I said "how come?" her response was to look at me and say "Cats, you do realise that the equivilant of "how come" is "why" don't you?" I just answered with. "oh" We discussed before why I felt the need to ask "why" all the time and the reasoning behind it is because when I was young I always asked "why" but was always met with disappointment as I was never given any answers. So she says that it is just my "stuck developmental part" trying to develop itself. So after I answered with "oh" I told her that I had been working hard on not asking her "why" all the time. Her response "Well, that's really good Cats, but you still don't listen very well do you? I don't know how many times I have had to repeat myself and tell you that you have a lot of developmental issues..." Great. Thanks T!. The sad part is that with as many times that she has repeated that, I still couldn't tell you what any of them are! YIKES!