If you don't want the truth, don't read any further.

This "relationship" was dead in the water as soon as an affair began. You are the other man, you will always be the other man, and nothing more. Not once in the post do you mention her uttering the word DIVORCE. She has no intention of leaving - she practically admitted it. She doesn't respect you, she doesn't respect her children, her husband, and in all probability doesn't respect herself either.

At 25 you're willing to throw your life away for an adulteress (you by no means are innocent, either) whose trust you would undoubtedly begin to question down the road, because if she can do it to her husband of ten years and father of her children, she most definitely will do it to you.

She will end it if you don't. Hopefully you can gain some insight by seeing the errors of your ways. Think about her husband and her kids who she parades around in front of you.