Wolfsong, I am SO proud of you for getting out of the horrible situation you were in. I know how hard this was for you, on so many levels... I wish I could do anything to help you, but all I can say is this... stay strong. You're wonderful. So many people would take abuse, would give in and crumble, but you've kept your identity all these years when you've been treated badly, and found the courage to step out from under the shadow of abuse. Really... I think you're wonderful.

I'm sure everyone else agrees with me, just... congratulations. ((((hug)))