One of the biggies for me, in feeling safe here at PC, is that I trust you all to give me "the benefit of doubt" ie, room to be where I am in a given moment. To trust that you won't take it personally if I am not posting responses. To trust that you know I care about you from the times when I can post and say it in words.

For me PC is a safe place to learn how to take care of myself without falling into guilty thinking. My limitations are so intrusive to 3D relationships, mostly because others can't/won't imagine the insidious weight of what I'm dealing with..... for instance: being upright hurts me. My "stuff" goes downhill from there..... who wants to go there with me? Too depressing/scarey to contemplate.

But, here at PC, we've all got our "stuff", understand "stuff", accept that "stuff" is unpredictable. "Stuff" is what this site is made of, "stuff" is not only acceptible, it's expected. How cool is that?

TimeO sweetie, you don't have to "take everything back" you didn't do anything wrong. There is no problem. You are not in trouble. I value your opinions. OK?