I guess I am guilty for being a "silent" member here.. Being here almost three years with 313 posts. I have many problems but what I have found that talking about them makes it worse for me, so when things get rough for me, I peek in here and somehow get grounded just by reading. I don't have many answers to a lot of the problems folks post about here is why I don't respond. I guess that is a poor excuse. Maybe I am just the quiet type.. I am harmless tho.

I like this place. A lot of wonderful people here. Maybe someday I can participate more. Time will tell ...

Maybe you nailed it about me with your comments, "Bondaries are up. Protecting self is high. Silence is a coping skill?." Seems I am all three. Anyway, your post is a good post, made me think about why I am here .