Thank you all, it is very hard right now, the funeral is on monday, Brenda and I are taking a bit of time apart right she really needs to grieve cause she has lost the only man she has ever truly loved, I wish I could be there for her in her time of need but she doens't want to see me right now and I understand, its just so hard to lose a friend especialy in this way. Again thank you all for the support and love.