Everyone needs me, my husband is three weeks out from dissappearing after having thoughts of dying. He is in therapy three times a week, getting med changes and is stablilizing but still fragile. 26 year old Daughter who lives with us is dating a charming but alcoholic man and has taken our 2 1/2 year old grandson camping with him, he is not the dad. I made it clear I thought it was a bad idea, she is now angry with me, but won't say it or discuss it. Youngest daughter getting married, needs my help with planning and I want to help her. My 71 year old mother lives next door to me and comes over everytime I have a moment to my self. I can not even go to the bathroom without someone following me... I know I should be happy that my life is so full, but really I just want to scream and cry. I went to the Dr. this am, got a script for Xanax, will it help or make me feel worse? I have never taken it.