|
Mar 08, 2011, 02:12 PM
|
 |
|
|
Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
|
|
Like the others have said ~ I have a feeling she's realizing that this is wrong, and she's putting an end to it. You can NEVER win when you're dealing with a married woman. You're talking about breaking up the family, for heavens sakes!!! That means taking the children's father away!!  Or perhaps she won't even get CUSTODY -- so that would mean taking the childrens MOTHER away!!!
These type relationships cause so much PAIN in so many people! It's not just you and her and the spouse. It's many many people that you affect! It's just not worth it!! Especially when you have kids in the picture. 
She's obviously going thru some sort of crisis right now -- she's how old? She 37? She's probably having some mid-life crisis type thing going on ~ she doesn't want to get old, so she picks on someone alot younger than herself to try to stay young.  It just doesn't work. Soon she's "wake up" and find that she's STILL twelve years older than you ~ and that doesn't hold up well when you get down the line some years ahead.
You'd be smart to just get out of this now. She doesn't "love" you in the real sense of the word. She's just in love with love. Her marriage got stale, so she went out looking for something exciting and she found it in you. It just won't last ~ those fireworks will go out, and so will you. You will become just as boring as her marriage did. The problem is with HER. She needs a therapist. And you can't be it.
Get out of this, and don't break up a family - PLEASE. Those kids don't deserve a broken family just because of lust. Peace, Lee
|