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Old Mar 08, 2011, 05:42 PM
ladytee60 ladytee60 is offline
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Hello....is anyone out there? I'm new here. I learned that I have Dependent Personality Disorder. I haven't been officially diagnosed by a psychiatrist, but I finally know why I'm so dependent. My problem is being too dependent on men. I've been married four times and all but three of my marriages have been very unhappy, yet I get scared when I think about being alone. I've gone from one marriage to another, usually on the rebound because I don't have enough confidence to rely on myself. I'm in an unhappy marriage now and have been with this man for 7 years,7 months. It's amazing how much crap I'll take from a man just because I have low self-esteem. I allow myself to be a doormat for the men I've been married to along with being a doormat for employers. I haven't worked in 18 months but when I was working I would do anything to please my employer. I'm quite miserable being this way and wish I could change. I'm so confused!