Hey. Your 'support staff' try and get you to dress different and stuff???

> Why can't they just say I need to be watched closer now because of starting college and they don't want me doing something dumb and that they're worried I MIGHT stress out/decompensate?

Could you maybe talk to them? Ask them if that is what is on their mind? And maybe tell them... That you don't have a problem with the way you dress and neither does anyone else aside from them...

I imagine... That they are just worried about you. People can fuss a bit when they are proud of what you have done so far and they really want you to do well... But of course it is your thing and I would bet that your future is more important to you than it is to them...

I hate it when people tell me how to dress etc...

Could you maybe talk to them?

Could be part of being more independent...