My husband of almost 17 years always accuses me of cheating and I am at my wits end! Today when he came home for lunch and we were in the kitchen...he got in the frig and saw a bag from McDonald's. (I went to McDonald's last night after college classes and did not eat all of my food.) He said, "Oh, I see did you get the munchies after having sex last night!") I walked away and was mad. I can't believe he is doing this and has been for our whole entire relationship. I graduate with my psych BA degree and I can't figure him out! He always says I can't take a joke but I am so tired of it. I have never cheated and have never given him a reason to think I am. I don't feel like he is either but I did ask him. He is so sarcastic all the time and he thinks he is funny and that I can't take a joke. I ask him...who's laughing? I know it is verbal abuse and even though I have asked him to stop...he won't. He says he has to "walk on egg shells" around me!