BP,
I beleive that talking about it is prolly best. But I say that with caution because I wouldnt want you to post something that your not feeling totally comfortable with. You need to feel safe and secure in whatever you post.
Dont be afraid to post because of a reaction you have recieved in the past. Anyone who had judged you in anyway is wrong for doing so.
I am here for you BP.
Huggles,
Jen