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Mar 09, 2011, 12:10 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi Shellebelle ~ If this has gone on the whole time you've been married, you deserve an Oscar !!! Why on earth have you stayed and put up with this for so long?? Do you have children? have you stayed for the sake of the kids??? I can understand that -- I did the same thing. I was married to a very verbally abusive man for 26 years before I divorced him -- I stayed because of the kids.  Little did I know that i did more damage to the kids by staying, than I would have done by leaving. But he threatened to take my kids to where I'd never find them -- and he would have too.
Bless your heart ~ you are undoubtedly miserable. Having to put up with those accusations all the time is ridiculous!! Many women would say "well, if I'm being accused of it, I might as well DO it!" You are to be applauded for NOT cheating!!
He needs a therapist to find out WHY he's so untrusting, WHY he's so unsure of himself. This man has problems!!! And if you are going to stay, perhaps marital counseling would be good too.
I wish you the very best ~ God bless you and please take care. Hugs, Lee
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