Yes when you complain people do feel bad. =O It's a fact of life, because sadness rubs off on people. Same as when we feel bad, you feel bad. But think of this. If we can find a way to make you happy, we'll be happy to. ^^ And vice versa. So the whole unhappiness thing is another step to being happy. Not sure if I made any sense here. ^^; Sorry.

Love Jen