Oh Calista, I am so sorry to hear about that! I would have found the bill to be a slap in the face especially since you didn't have the gas (which would have been cheaper) to get there. That totally sucks. I am sorry to also hear about the position you are currently in with your T. It's sad that you once had so much trust in him and now as youo say are both on completely different continents. Perhaps look into finding another T before you terminate with him. Just a thought. I hope things turn around for you and start to improve!