Oh, wow, that is so hard. I can imagine how much emotional turmoil this brings up for you.

Did the pdoc send you the $20 bill for mailing out the scripts? Or was it an appt. cancellation fee? I know my T has very strict policies about that, and they are put in place for a couple reasons, which I respect. But it doesn't feel good at all.

I'm sorry that your T's health is having such an affect on your relationship. That's so sad.