Well, I have learned that if you dont feel good about yourself maintaining a relationship is going to be very hard if not impossible. I had a breakthru with my depression, but I am no way near ready to have a relationship with a man and im okay with that. I have to learn to feel whole by myself. Maybe he is just being friendly and kind to you. dont assume he wants more. not all men are the same. keep your radar up and take care of your needs first. Depressed women can be vulnerable to men with not so good intentions. Im just saying this in general. I dont know you or him, its just something to think about.