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Old Mar 09, 2011, 11:46 AM
Anonymous33005
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So... there is this dude that I am dating, and he already said he loves me.. creeped me out a bit. We met in October and have been dating since. I don't know what to do, I honestly feel we should stop dating also since sex and lust is interfering and being a problem. We had agreed to stop dating if sex and lust came in between us again (after like 5 or so times)... next thing you know it did, and to top it off he had told me he loved me a few hours before the sex and lust came along... feel bad about this whole mess. I tried breaking it off, but he wanted to try and make things work still. I care for him, and overall see him as a great friend, and someone I would like to still have in my life. But if it doesn't work out because of this, then thats fine too, i would understand. What is really throwing me off is that he said he loves me while we are only dating... What should I do? ... What would you do??

Also, I do find him a little cruel and jerky at times and it does annoy me and is sort of hurtful. I have told him or pointed out when he is being annoying, but i'm not sure if he thinks i'm joking. I think my facial expressions too would say that I am getting annoyed. Maybe it is best I do pull away from him little by little?

Please advice... thank you in advance.
I'm also a little confused - I'm not sure how old you are, but having sex is a normal part of a growing relationshi IF YOU ARE BOTH READY FOR IT - you talk about giving in to lust so I'm wondering if having sex is against some kind of belief system you have....

However, more important is the part about finding him cruel and jerky....why would you want to be someone who you find hurtful and annoys you, even as a friend? Follow Leed's advice and end the relationship - my experience is to do it like ripping off a bandaid - very quickly - it may sting a little at first but then it's over and you can move on.