YOU GO GIRL!!!! I am so proud of you taking these steps to take care of You!
It is and will be a long journey...with each step, ask yourself, "Is this good for me?" Hard...yes....scary, ofcourse, nerve-racking, yesssss...but you will gain a world you create.
And I believe in that "list of pro's and con's" idea...plan..even if its, hour by hour...ya know these are good life skills. And never forget from whence you came...it will help see those ~red flags~ in other relationships.
I am excited for you....and do so wish, as all that have posted...courage, strength, health, peace of mind....and LOVE for yourself!
Many blessings, and keep us around you!