Well, they probably got their feelings hurt when you asked your boyfriend to stay away from them for YOU. I don't know what your boyfriend told them as to the reason why he couldn't hang with them any longer because you didn't want to be around his ex -- but I'm sure it didn't sit well with them. And now you wonder why they don't want to hang around the two of you?? You must have a clue!!
They aren't going to come running back to the two of you just because you say everything is fine and dandy!! You hurt their feelings!! I don't blame them for being cool and distant. It's going to take quite a while to get them to warm up ~ and they may NEVER as long as you're in the picture. Who knows.
It's a shame your boyfriend had to lose his long-time friends because you didn't want to be around his ex. You could have been a little more grown up and just tolerated her. She wasn't out to get your man. But it's all over now. It's not their fault. Sorry. Hugs, Lee
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