Same for me - my parents are still considered pillars of the community, my father recently was a member of the school board where I grew up, they make monetary donations using my grandfathers $, they are regularly praised for all the good they do for the community...it makes me sick! Fortunately, I moved far away so it is not in my face everyday. I usually hear about it through the grapevine or when I do something stupid like google them or something (don't know why I do that, maybe hoping something terrible happened to them?!?!) It is so unfair...they are living their lives, on top of the world and I am stuck in this hell they sentenced me to. I am so sorry - I do understand!