I know for us, we had a few parts have the problems you were stating. For us, if that part was going out then it was that part that dealt with the therapist.
We have to remember that these parts saved our life yet can be extremely hard to deal with when healing. I know we had parts that would stay up and make sure these parts didn't leave.
Maybe start writing to your system, telling your system maybe that your in healing now and that there is places to go and get help. Working on being co-conscious is a huge thing which for me meant going over and over and over and over it staying safe until your aware of each other.

Hey good luck.......
you'll be in my thoughts ((((ladymacabethadmunsen)))))))

Great ? by the way