Ok, well this is what happened.
My husband figured out that he probably did get the refferal but because it was under my legal last name , he probably thought it was someone else. I was correct and he called me back to tell me. He also asked me to check the last name on my insurance card to let him know what name I'm under there so I did by his answering machine. He did mention that on the fax that he recieved, it was listed for a psychological evaluation. I was like WTF??? Anyway, I'm still awaiting his call to see if there are more complications...