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Old Mar 09, 2011, 05:58 PM
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(((martina)))

I really would recommend that you two work with a marital counselor to help you work through issues that are currently dividing you. It is terrific that you make a great team in caring for your daughter ~ that is very important for her emotional health.

Open communication is vital to a healthy marriage. Working on re-developing that with your hub has to be #1. With that said, it can take time and devotion. Meaning: there will still be some rough days in between. Don't give up when they come though. Just keep trying. As long as both you and your husband are willing to work in re-developing a healthy and happy marriage, it is worth the time and pain. When you get through it, your bond will be deeper than ever ~ that's the goal that you aim towards, and keep in mind as you work.

I wish you and your hub the best.
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