If he said those things then he's an arse, and you can print that out and show it to him.
It is however possible that he was (in an overbearing way) suggesting possibilities to you which you took as fact. My first pdoc made comments which I initially interpreted as attacking me. Fortunately I wrote down what he said, and looked at it, two months later to discover that he wasn't actually attacking me at all. I had misinterpreted everything. This was deeply shameful for me to admit, and I still think he was a bit of a git (very grateful when he left the country and I got someone else instead) but I don't think he was attacking me as I thought he was.
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Here I sit so patiently
Waiting to find out what price
You have to pay to get out of
Going through all these things twice.
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