Hi Poetgirl,

That's a good question - interesting to read through all the answers.

I also think it is interesting that your T asked if you were 'yourself' here. That strikes me as a strange thing to wonder about - why would someone post here and pretend to be something other than they are?

I have not told my T about this place. I told her about another forum I use for AN support, but not this one. I thought about mentioning it, but I realized I am scared to tell her. For a couple of reasons: I am afraid she would come here to 'find' me, and also because I don't her to think I am talking about her behind her back. I know that probably sounds strange.