ladyjrnlist, I really hope you do come to find it of benefit to be here!
As far as giving T my screen name here, I don't think I would volunteer it, and if she asked (which I hope she won't!) I'd probably not want to tell her - I feel like it's OK that she knows I post here, in the interests of transparency, but don't think I have to be so transparent that I tell her my name so she could possibly come see what I posted! I know she has lots of other things to do with her time, but you never know.....I feel like if I want her to know something or she needs to know, I will tell her in person! This is my space to deal with issues about therapy or about my relationship with her that are confusing or troubling to me, a place I can be me, a place to find insight and support, and offer it.....all of benefit to me.
Thanks to everyone who has replied so far, I appreciate it!