Im going to ask my T about this 3 month break thing. Ive never heard of it and i dont know why they are telling you this.

Why dont you lie to them, and pull out all the stops and go private for 3 months with a T while you wait on the hospital helping you. If they are going to play games, then play one back and go prvate while you wait. A counsellor would not know you were waiting on the hospital.

I dont know what other advice to offer as it seems like no matter what you do, they refuse to help.