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Old Mar 10, 2011, 01:06 PM
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Originally Posted by sittingatwatersedge View Post
My $0.02, one doesn;t necessarily NEED to tell ALL, in order to heal; half of the stuff I could tell my T would bore her socks off , stuff she couldn't care less about.

It's my feeling that every client knows what's necessary to tell, in order to find healing, even if it's difficult or even **** hard to do it;
but when the client judges that something is not necessary to tell for healing, I don't really think it could be called "secrecy", that seems a bit hard.
Certainly not something as innocuous as posting on a (public, mind you) social forum of people with a common experience, even of therapy.
I see your point. I'm rethinking now about a painful self-disclosure I had planned to make tomorrow with my T. She knows that we're doing it but now I'm wondering if I need to after all. I may change my mind. I mean, why go through that hell if it may not be necessary. Thanks for your input.