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Originally Posted by solitair
Spaceid I do not know alot about any details of your relationship but I can only speak from my own experience. I have learned that if you are insecure in your relationship it is usually because you have other insecurities in your life. Until you work on that and you can feel secure in yourself it is difficult having any healthy relationships with anybody. Hope some way you can find a way to work on feeling secure about yourself then the othe is alot easier. Hope this is helpful, and hope you are able to work this out, living the way you are I know is miserable.Take care of You first.
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I understand what you are saying. I just don't know why I'm insecure. I'm at a point in my life where I'm actually very happy with how my life is going. I used to have a very stressful homelife and no work prospects. Now things are much different. I'm happy at home, going to school, and have an ok job to go with it. That's the only reason why I'm even dating now. I finally feel ready for a relationship because it would just be the icing on the cake. I don't know why I'm so stressed about it. I think I don't feel as though I get this much attention from guys that I like so I put a lot of pressure on myself not too mess it up. I don't feel as though I many chances in life to be with someone. I'm not unattractive, in fact my self esteem is a lot better than it use to be. I guess I get more attached to people than I thought I did.