Hi Rhapsody,

I can feel your post, and how your husband has made you feel.

It is so sad when a person invalidates another person, and makes them feel so unhappy. It seems like your husband has put you in a position where you feel threatened and triggered by every young girl in the world.

He should be valuing you as the person who he chose to marry (over and above everyone else) and protecting and comforting you.

Rhapsody, as a married guy myself, I would say that this sounds like his problem not yours!

Good thoughts, and welcome to a very helpful place.

Myzen