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Originally Posted by poetgirl76
So, I confessed that I wish she could hold me (she won't of course, and re-iterated that firmly; a little less firmly would have stung less  ) |
yeah, I would find that hurtful too...maybe if it still bothers you, you could tell her.
If it was me, I would tell her this: I obviously know you are never going to hold me. It sounded harsh when you firmly re-iterated your boundaries, when I very clearly know what and where those boundaries are.