Lastyearisblank -Thanks for that and I think you are right. It would have hurt less if she had only said it the second way.

Karebear -Thanks she IS pushing me alright. You are also right. She had mentioned to me many times that she thinks that I have a lot of capacty to learn and grow. I would definitely like to slow down though!

Sannah -Thanks for your vote of confidence, it means a lot to me!

Marie123 -Actually she is a really caring and empathetic therapist. I just didn't portray to much of that part of her in this thread.