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Originally Posted by with or without you
yeah, I would find that hurtful too...maybe if it still bothers you, you could tell her.
If it was me, I would tell her this: I obviously know you are never going to hold me. It sounded harsh when you firmly re-iterated your boundaries, when I very clearly know what and where those boundaries are.
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I did say something like this....that "I KNOW you can't, won't, and I haven't expected it". She knows I respect and understand her boundaries....doesn't mean the darn things don't hurt though, and that I don't wish that she could see that a simple touch in session would be so helpful sometimes. But she does at least hug me after every session and said that these things I've disclosed aren't making her want to take that away.....