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Originally Posted by poetgirl76
So, I am just wondering how many have told their Ts about posting here and what T's reaction was and how many haven't told their Ts and why?
I hadn't exactly intended to tell mine for a while, since I was thinking probably she wouldn't entirely approve or think that things might be triggering for me or something....but I printed out the mood chart from the Daily Mood to take to show her and she liked it so well she wanted to know where I got it from.  So, I told her it was from PC.....then I realized later I hadn't told her it was found on the forum specifically and you had to register, but she told me later that she had looked and had found that for herself. So, the cat was out of the bag  I said of course I was registered and posted a lot and found it very supportive and helpful. She was concerned that some forums might be triggering for me.....but her main question really was, are you really you there? Meaning, I think, did I present myself as someone I am not? And I don't think I have....so I said, I am very much me there!
So anyway, now she knows.....and she's still a bit skeptical, but accepts that it's very valuable to me to post here.
That said, I hope she doesn't decide to look on here to see if she can figure out who I am and sees what I have posted!  (especially that one certain sex thread.....although I did tell her I had participated in a racy thread, I didn't tell her she was a subject in it! )
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I've had two T's and haven't told either one, nor do I plan to. I know me. if I tell my T that I hang out on PC, i'd constantly worry about whether or not she is scouring the boards trying to find me

. Eventhough I know she's not a huge internet fan, I still couldn't bring myself to tell her because I don't want one more thing to worry about...I have more than enough to worry about as it is (relevant or not).