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Old Mar 11, 2011, 06:42 PM
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Originally Posted by farmergirl View Post
Between that and whatever information your t was getting from the hospital, he probably really didn't have much choice than to be sure you were safe. It is a liability issue.
That's the thing...I was never in danger. or suicidal

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Also, I feel that trust goes both ways. He needs to trust that you won't seriously hurt yourself, and maybe he was doubting that based on your actions. So he erred on the side of caution and made sure you were safe.
yea...but I phoned him on the way to the hospital..he knew I was safe...The only action I had was taking a couple too many klonipin when I was in pain, and talking to a hot line that was supposed to help.

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Hugs.....
That sounds really awful.

Question - when you say you terminated, does that mean you had a discussion with your T about it and told him you were quitting? Or are you terminating in your own mind and just planning to never go back.

I strongly encourage you to go back for at least one more session. You can talk about why you are quitting therapy with him, and express your feelings about what he did. For all you know, maybe it was a misunderstanding? Or maybe he didn't have a choice?
I left two voice mail messages, one saying that since you no longer have my back and could care less about me stuck in that psych ward I could no longer see him... Then the hospital set up a follow up with him. SO I called again and stated that he really blew my trust, he's just like all the other T's and I could no longer see him.
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