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Old Mar 11, 2011, 09:32 PM
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LOLLL!!!! I love how when psychologists got together to decide what to call this, they picked abstinence. A word whose opposite is not in fact "being a normal amount of friendly" but having sex!! How is that not supposed to confuse clients.
I know, right? No, I don't think I'll confuse things any further with T by using that term. But the term "abstinence" also is used in addictions work (i.e. abstaining from alcohol, etc.), so I guess there are multiple usages of it in psych circles.

But seriously, guys, thanks so much for all your input. I just need to be honest with my T, including about my questions on whether or not this will even work for me...and keep the lines of communication open till I/we feel some resolution about it.